他其实没那么喜欢你第78期:不该和已婚男人约会的理由

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2016年04月24日

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Hey, Down-Low,

嘿，低调，

Really? We're having this conversation?

真的吗?我们真的要谈这个吗?

I'm really going to have to explain to you why youshouldn't be dating a married man?

我真的得向你阐明你不该和已婚男人约会的理由么?

Well, okay: Here is the lowdown on your boss.

好吧，以下是你老板的真实情况。

He's married and having an affair, which indicates to me so many things.

他已婚却搞婚外情，这对我而言很多事情不言而喻。

First, he's okay with being dishonest.(Nice.)

首先，他不诚实。(很好)

Second, he's fine with cheating on his wife.(Super.)

第二，他无所谓背叛妻子。(超赞)

他其实没那么喜欢你第78期:不该和已婚男人约会的理由

Third, he has no regard for his marriage.(What a gem.)

第三，他不在乎自己的婚姻。(太牛了)

Fourth and most specifically to you, he has no real regard for you, because what you're gettingfrom him is scraps—stolen time that's cloaked in shame. (Just what you always dreamed of as agirl, right? )

第四也是对一而言最明确的一点就是，他毫不考虑你，因为你从他那里得到的只是残羹冷炙——遮掩在羞耻之下的偷来的时间。(正是你作为一个女孩儿一直以来想要的，不是么?)

And because this is a workplace affair, who do you think will be asked to leave when theromance goes sour or becomes water cooler fodder that threatens his job and/or marriage? You.

而且由于这是办公室恋情，如果这段恋情出篓子了，或者有了流言蜚语影响到了他的工作/婚姻，你觉得被要求离开的会是谁?是你。

And whose reputation as a serious business-person will be compromised? Did you guess you?Good girl.

作为一个严肃的商人谁会名誉受损呢?你猜到是自己了么?好姑娘。

Regardless of how much his marriage sucks or how awful his wife is to him, it obviously isn'tthat bad or he would get out of it.

不管他的婚姻有多糟糕，他的妻子会他有多坏，很明显并没有那么糟糕，否则他早就摆脱它了。

A good relationship should not be lived in secrecy. Go find yourself one worth living out loud.

美好的恋情不应该秘密进行。去为自己找寻一段值得高声宣扬的爱情吧。

Regards, Greg

致意，格雷格

I know things seem a lot easier when your affair is with a man whose wife is an evil, shrieking,insulting hag.

我知道当你跟一个有着像魔鬼般，尖叫的，无礼的母夜叉一样的妻子的男人搞外遇事情看起来容易许多。

No matter what their relationship or circumstances are, you are still helping a man cheat on hiswife.