CNN时尚生活志：Oh, Behave! 你不能不知道的商务用餐礼仪

24 Oh, Behave!

24 你不能不知道的商务用餐礼仪

RICHARD QUEST, BUSINESS TRAVELLER

The Gotham Bar &: Grill, a top New York restaurant, and I'm here to learn the dos and don'ts of how to behave. Hello!

《商业旅行家》理查德·奎斯特

这里是美国纽约市的顶级餐厅“葛腊酒吧及烧烤”我来这里学习用餐的礼仪与禁忌。你好!

KIM BISHOP, KORNIFERRY INTERNATIONAL

Hi, Richard. Good to see you. Richard, we're already off on the wrong foot. Look at how you're dressed.

光辉国际人力顾问公司 金·毕夏普

嗨，理查德，很高兴和你见面。理查德，你才起步就不对了，瞧你这身穿着。

RICHARD QUEST, BUSINESS TRAVELLER

What's wrong with it?

《商业旅行家》理查德·奎斯特

这样穿有什么问题?

KIM BISHOP, KORN/FERRY INTERNATIONAL

This is not acceptable! Richard?

光辉国际人力顾问公司金·毕夏普

这样穿是不行的!理查德?

RICHARD QUEST, CNN BUSINESS TRAVELLER

What?

《商业旅行家》理查德·奎斯特

什么?

KIM BISHOP, KORN/FERRY INTERNATIONAL

What are you doing?

光辉国际人力顾问公司金·毕夏普

你在做什么啊?

RICHARD QUEST, BUSINESS TRAVELER

I'm Blackberrying. You know, I'm-I'm...

《商业旅行家》理查德·奎斯特

我在用我的黑莓机，我在——我在…

KIM BISHOP, KORN/FERRY INTERNATIONAL

Do you think that's appropriate? Oh，Richard! Put that down!

光辉国际人力顾问公司金·毕夏普

你觉得这样恰当吗?噢，理查德!放下来!

RICHARD QUEST, BUSINESS TRAVELLER

Why?

《商业旅行家》理查德·奎斯特

为什么?

KIM BISHOP, KORN/FERRY INTERNATIONAL

What are you doing?

光辉国际人力顾问公司金·毕夏普

你在干吗?

RICHARD QUEST, BUSINESS TRAVELLER

Well, I had the lamb and you had the risotto, but you had the soup, and then I had...

《商业旅行家》理查德·奎斯特

我点了羔羊肉，你点了意式炖饭，但是你又点了汤，那么我就……

KIM BISHOP, KORN/FERRY INTERNATIONAL

Please don't do that, Richard!

光辉国际人力顾问公司金·毕夏普

请你别这样，理查德!

RICHARD QUEST, BUSINESS TRAVELLER

But your risotto was more expensive than...

《商业旅行家》理查德·奎斯特

可是你的意式炖饭比较贵。

Let's get to work. Right. How long should we spend looking at the menu, do you think? I mean, should we be extolling every-"Oh, the Muscovy Duck and foie gras! Oh, I see they've got crisp soft-shelled crabs here!"

咱们开始办正事吧。好，你认为我们要花多少时间看菜单?我是说，我们是不是应该——赞叹——“喔，俄式莫斯科鸭肉和法国肥鹅肝酱!看，他们还有酥炸软壳蟹!”

KIM BISHOP, KORN/FERRY INTERNATIONAL

You know, we spend a few minutes on the menu. We take a look. If you've been to the restaurant before and you see something that you recommend you might mention that. But there's no need to go through the entire menu together.

光辉国际人力顾问公司金·毕夏普

我们会花几分钟看菜单。先看看菜单，如果你来过这家餐厅，你看到几道你想推荐的菜，你可以提出来，但是没必要把整本菜单全看一遍。

RICHARD QUEST, BUSINESS TRAVELLER

Should we be drinking wine or alcohol at business meetings?

《商业旅行家》理查德·奎斯特

如果是公事聚会，究竟该喝红酒还是烈酒?

KIM BISHOP, KORN/FERRY INTERNATIONAL

It varies based upon the meeting. If it's a business dinner, I would say you would want to take the cue from your host. If it is a lunch, I generally recommend staying away from alcohol at lunch. We're having lunch, so we're not going to have any wine.

光辉国际人力顾问公司金·毕夏普

要看餐会本身的性质而定。如果是商务晚餐，我想你应该看主人的意思。如果是午餐，我通常建议午餐要避免喝烈酒。我们吃的是午餐，所以我们一滴酒都不会沾。

RICHARD QUEST, BUSINESS TRAVELLER

No wine for us today. Thank you.

《商业旅行家》理查德·奎斯特

今天没红酒喝了，多谢你了。

KIM BISHOP, KORN/FERRY INTERNATIONAL

Oh, that looks lovely.

光辉国际人力顾问公司金·毕夏普

看起来好棒。

RICHARD QUEST, BUSINESS TRAVELLER

We're on our appetizer. What conversation should we be talking about?

《商业旅行家》理查德·奎斯特

现在在吃开胃菜，我们该聊些什么呢?

KIM BISHOP, KORN/FERRY INTERNATIONAL

Well, up until now we've probably been making small talk. The rule of thumb is: Small talk should be the same kind of conversation you'd have in the office, as to what you'd have at the business dinner. And I bring that Up because so many people make the mistake of feeling like they're in a social setting, so things that may have been off limits in the office, are now OK to talk about.

光辉国际人力顾问公司金·毕夏普

到现在为止，我们可能一直在闲聊。这时候要把握的原则是:商务晚餐的闲聊内容应该要和你在办公室里闲聊的内容一致。我之所以会提出这一点，是因为很多人会感觉自己身处在一个社交场合中，于是便误以为可以谈一些在办公室里忌讳的话题。

RICHARD QUEST BUSINESS TRAVELLER

Thank you. Why does all this matter?

《商业旅行家》理查德·奎斯特

谢谢你。这些为什么很重要呢?

KIM BISHOP, KORN/FERRY INTERNATIONAL

It matters because you're there for a reason. We're not here because we're best friends, or anything like that. We're here because we have a business reason to be here. And that is important. And that's what people need to stay focused on, is why are they there.

光辉国际人力顾问公司金·毕夏普

之所以重要是因为你去餐会是有原因的。我们来这儿用餐并不是因为我们是要好的朋友，我们是为了商务的需要，这是重点。人们该注意的是他们为什么会在那个场合。