为什么奇娜·菲利普斯·鲍德温说最近的举动导致了与丈夫比利·鲍德温的“沟通破裂”
Chynna Phillips Baldwin is opening up about a recent rough patch she and husband Billy Baldwin endured amid a cross-country move, and the ways in which they powered through.
金娜·菲利普斯·鲍德温公开了她和丈夫比利·鲍德温最近在一次越野旅行中遇到的困难，以及他们是如何度过难关的。
The singer, 56, shared a new video to her California Preachin’ YouTube channel on Monday, April 22, and revealed that she and Billy, 61, have been “getting on each other’s last nerve” after heading back to the West Coast.
这位56岁的歌手于4月22日星期一在她的加州布道YouTube频道上分享了一段新视频，并透露她和61岁的比利在回到西海岸后一直“惹毛对方”。
“[It’s] frustrating because just when I feel like we’re on a roll and things are starting to get better, we start the bickering again,” she said. “I was really proud of myself because we started arguing this morning and he was like, ‘What do you want?’ And I was like, ‘I want to communicate properly. I want us to have effective communication.’”
她说:“这很令人沮丧，因为就在我觉得一切都很顺利，事情开始好转的时候，我们又开始争吵了。”“我真的为自己感到骄傲，因为我们今天早上开始争吵，他说，‘你想要什么?’我说，‘我想好好交流。我希望我们能进行有效的沟通。’”
Chynna said that at that point, her husband of nearly 30 years “gained his composure,” and the two were able to have a “normal conversation.”
奇娜说，在那一刻，她结婚近30年的丈夫“恢复了镇静”，两人能够进行“正常的交谈”。
“It was definitely a victory for us because we have a tendency to just sort of spiral and the communication breakdown gets worse and worse and we’re off to the races,” she said. “Billy’s my life partner. He’s the one I want to have the healthiest relationship with… But sometimes I don’t. A lot of times I don’t because I don’t want to rock the boat, or I don’t want to put him in a bad mood, or I’m walking on eggshells.”
她说:“这对我们来说绝对是一场胜利，因为我们有一种螺旋式上升的趋势，沟通障碍越来越严重，我们要全力以赴。”“比利是我的终身伴侣。他是我想和他建立最健康关系的人，但有时我并没有。很多时候我不这么做，因为我不想破坏现状，或者我不想让他心情不好，或者我很小心翼翼。”
The Wilson Phillips singer admitted she takes “responsibility” for the state of their relationship, as she needs to “learn to trust” her husband and “speak up” when she’s dealing with something.
这位威尔逊·菲利普斯乐队的歌手承认，她对他们的关系状态负有“责任”，因为她需要“学会信任”她的丈夫，并在处理一些事情时“直言不讳”。
“It just comes down to me not wanting to trigger him, but the truth is that me having that fear is keeping us from true intimacy, because it’s preventing me from opening up to him and I’m trying to guard his feelings and yet I’m causing more trouble in our marriage by doing that,” she said. “I’m shooting myself in the foot.”
她说:“归根结底，我不想激怒他，但事实是，我的这种恐惧让我们无法真正亲密，因为这让我无法向他敞开心扉，我试图保护他的感情，但我这样做给我们的婚姻带来了更多麻烦。”“我这是搬起石头砸自己的脚。”
Chynna and Billy have been open about their marital troubles in recent months, and in January, Billy appeared on his wife’s YouTube channel.
近几个月来，奇娜和比利一直公开谈论他们的婚姻问题，今年1月，比利出现在他妻子的YouTube频道上。
金娜·菲利普斯·鲍德温公开了她和丈夫比利·鲍德温最近在一次越野旅行中遇到的困难，以及他们是如何度过难关的。
The singer, 56, shared a new video to her California Preachin’ YouTube channel on Monday, April 22, and revealed that she and Billy, 61, have been “getting on each other’s last nerve” after heading back to the West Coast.
这位56岁的歌手于4月22日星期一在她的加州布道YouTube频道上分享了一段新视频，并透露她和61岁的比利在回到西海岸后一直“惹毛对方”。
“[It’s] frustrating because just when I feel like we’re on a roll and things are starting to get better, we start the bickering again,” she said. “I was really proud of myself because we started arguing this morning and he was like, ‘What do you want?’ And I was like, ‘I want to communicate properly. I want us to have effective communication.’”
她说:“这很令人沮丧，因为就在我觉得一切都很顺利，事情开始好转的时候，我们又开始争吵了。”“我真的为自己感到骄傲，因为我们今天早上开始争吵，他说，‘你想要什么?’我说，‘我想好好交流。我希望我们能进行有效的沟通。’”
Chynna said that at that point, her husband of nearly 30 years “gained his composure,” and the two were able to have a “normal conversation.”
奇娜说，在那一刻，她结婚近30年的丈夫“恢复了镇静”，两人能够进行“正常的交谈”。
“It was definitely a victory for us because we have a tendency to just sort of spiral and the communication breakdown gets worse and worse and we’re off to the races,” she said. “Billy’s my life partner. He’s the one I want to have the healthiest relationship with… But sometimes I don’t. A lot of times I don’t because I don’t want to rock the boat, or I don’t want to put him in a bad mood, or I’m walking on eggshells.”
她说:“这对我们来说绝对是一场胜利，因为我们有一种螺旋式上升的趋势，沟通障碍越来越严重，我们要全力以赴。”“比利是我的终身伴侣。他是我想和他建立最健康关系的人，但有时我并没有。很多时候我不这么做，因为我不想破坏现状，或者我不想让他心情不好，或者我很小心翼翼。”
The Wilson Phillips singer admitted she takes “responsibility” for the state of their relationship, as she needs to “learn to trust” her husband and “speak up” when she’s dealing with something.
这位威尔逊·菲利普斯乐队的歌手承认，她对他们的关系状态负有“责任”，因为她需要“学会信任”她的丈夫，并在处理一些事情时“直言不讳”。
“It just comes down to me not wanting to trigger him, but the truth is that me having that fear is keeping us from true intimacy, because it’s preventing me from opening up to him and I’m trying to guard his feelings and yet I’m causing more trouble in our marriage by doing that,” she said. “I’m shooting myself in the foot.”
她说:“归根结底，我不想激怒他，但事实是，我的这种恐惧让我们无法真正亲密，因为这让我无法向他敞开心扉，我试图保护他的感情，但我这样做给我们的婚姻带来了更多麻烦。”“我这是搬起石头砸自己的脚。”
Chynna and Billy have been open about their marital troubles in recent months, and in January, Billy appeared on his wife’s YouTube channel.
近几个月来，奇娜和比利一直公开谈论他们的婚姻问题，今年1月，比利出现在他妻子的YouTube频道上。
