露皮塔·尼永奥坦率地谈论最近的分手:“我生活在很多痛苦和心碎中”
Lupita Nyong'o is reflecting on her recent heartbreak.
露皮塔·尼永奥正在反思她最近的心碎。
The Oscar winner revealed in October that she and boyfriend Selema Masekela had ended their relationship. In a new cover story for NET-A-PORTER’s digital title PORTER, Nyong'o, 40, discussed why she chose to open up about the situation on social media at the time.
这位奥斯卡奖得主在10月份透露，她和男友塞莱玛·马塞克拉已经结束了恋情。在NET-A-PORTER电子杂志《PORTER》的新封面故事中，40岁的尼永奥讨论了她当时选择在社交媒体上公开自己处境的原因。
"I was living in a lot of pain and heartbreak," she said. "I looked at the environment of my social media and thought I don’t want to be a part of this illusion that everything is always coming up roses. Surely there is a lesson for me to learn in this, and I just want to be real about it."
“我生活在很多痛苦和心碎之中，”她说。“我看着我的社交媒体环境，想我不想成为这种一切都一帆风顺的错觉的一部分。当然，这件事给我上了一课，我只是想真实地面对它。”
The A Quiet Place: Day One actress also explained why she was so public with her relationship status — and why she might not be in the future.
这位曾出演《寂静之地:第一天》的女演员还解释了为什么她如此公开自己的感情状况，以及为什么她可能不会在未来继续。
"It was because I felt sure about it," Nyong'o said of her decision to be open with her fans. She added of her past policy on keeping relationships to herself: "That was very, very sage of me. I’m going back to those days, by the way."
“这是因为我很确定，”尼永奥在谈到她决定向粉丝敞开心扉时说。她还谈到了自己过去的恋爱策略:“这是我非常非常明智的决定。顺便说一句，我要回到那些日子了。”
Nyong'o remains hopeful about finding love again, though. She told PORTER, "Our purpose in life is to love. And so you have to get back in it."
不过，尼永奥仍然希望能再次找到真爱。她告诉《PORTER》杂志，“我们生活的目的就是去爱。所以你必须重新投入其中。”
The actress and Masekela, a TV host and sports commentator, publicly confirmed their relationship on Instagram in December 2022, though it's unclear when their relationship began.
这位女演员和电视主持人兼体育评论员马塞克拉于2022年12月在Instagram上公开确认了他们的恋情，尽管尚不清楚他们的恋情是何时开始的。
In a statement on Instagram Oct. 19, 2023, Nyong'o wrote about her breakup, saying, "At this moment, it is necessary for me to share a personal truth and publicly dissociate myself from someone I can no longer trust."
2023年10月19日，尼永奥在Instagram上发表了一份关于分手的声明，她说:“在这一刻，我有必要分享一个个人真相，并公开与我不再信任的人分离。”
"I find myself in a season of heartbreak because of a love suddenly and devastatingly extinguished by deception," the Black Panther star continued at the time. "I am tempted to run into the shadows and hide, only to return to the light when I have regained my strength enough for me to say, 'Whatever, my life is better this way.' But I am reminded that the magnitude of the pain I am feeling is equal to the measure of my capacity for love."
“我发现自己正处于心碎的季节，因为一段爱情突然被欺骗而毁灭性地熄灭了，”这位出演《黑豹》的明星当时继续说道。“我很想跑到阴影里躲起来，只有当我恢复了足够的力量，才能回到光明中说:‘不管怎样，这样我的生活更好。’”但我被提醒，我所感受到的痛苦的程度等于我爱的能力的大小。”
"And so, I am choosing to face the pain, cultivating the courage to meet my life exactly as it is, and trusting that this too shall pass," she added.
“所以，我选择面对痛苦，培养勇气面对我的生活，并相信这一切都会过去，”她补充说。
"The promise, they say, is that a tender heart is what gives birth to fearlessness. I hope it’s true… I share this to keep it [100], and hoping that the knowledge of my experience might be useful to someone else out there experiencing the grip of heartbreak who is poised to try and escape from the pain and miss out on the wisdom that comes from it. Let’s face our pain so we don’t spread it."
他们说，这个承诺是，一颗温柔的心会孕育出无畏。我希望这是真的……我分享这些是为了保存它[100]，并希望我的经验对那些正在经历心碎的人有用，他们正准备逃离痛苦，却错过了从中获得的智慧。让我们面对我们的痛苦，这样我们就不会传播它。”
露皮塔·尼永奥正在反思她最近的心碎。
The Oscar winner revealed in October that she and boyfriend Selema Masekela had ended their relationship. In a new cover story for NET-A-PORTER’s digital title PORTER, Nyong'o, 40, discussed why she chose to open up about the situation on social media at the time.
这位奥斯卡奖得主在10月份透露，她和男友塞莱玛·马塞克拉已经结束了恋情。在NET-A-PORTER电子杂志《PORTER》的新封面故事中，40岁的尼永奥讨论了她当时选择在社交媒体上公开自己处境的原因。
"I was living in a lot of pain and heartbreak," she said. "I looked at the environment of my social media and thought I don’t want to be a part of this illusion that everything is always coming up roses. Surely there is a lesson for me to learn in this, and I just want to be real about it."
“我生活在很多痛苦和心碎之中，”她说。“我看着我的社交媒体环境，想我不想成为这种一切都一帆风顺的错觉的一部分。当然，这件事给我上了一课，我只是想真实地面对它。”
The A Quiet Place: Day One actress also explained why she was so public with her relationship status — and why she might not be in the future.
这位曾出演《寂静之地:第一天》的女演员还解释了为什么她如此公开自己的感情状况，以及为什么她可能不会在未来继续。
"It was because I felt sure about it," Nyong'o said of her decision to be open with her fans. She added of her past policy on keeping relationships to herself: "That was very, very sage of me. I’m going back to those days, by the way."
“这是因为我很确定，”尼永奥在谈到她决定向粉丝敞开心扉时说。她还谈到了自己过去的恋爱策略:“这是我非常非常明智的决定。顺便说一句，我要回到那些日子了。”
Nyong'o remains hopeful about finding love again, though. She told PORTER, "Our purpose in life is to love. And so you have to get back in it."
不过，尼永奥仍然希望能再次找到真爱。她告诉《PORTER》杂志，“我们生活的目的就是去爱。所以你必须重新投入其中。”
The actress and Masekela, a TV host and sports commentator, publicly confirmed their relationship on Instagram in December 2022, though it's unclear when their relationship began.
这位女演员和电视主持人兼体育评论员马塞克拉于2022年12月在Instagram上公开确认了他们的恋情，尽管尚不清楚他们的恋情是何时开始的。
In a statement on Instagram Oct. 19, 2023, Nyong'o wrote about her breakup, saying, "At this moment, it is necessary for me to share a personal truth and publicly dissociate myself from someone I can no longer trust."
2023年10月19日，尼永奥在Instagram上发表了一份关于分手的声明，她说:“在这一刻，我有必要分享一个个人真相，并公开与我不再信任的人分离。”
"I find myself in a season of heartbreak because of a love suddenly and devastatingly extinguished by deception," the Black Panther star continued at the time. "I am tempted to run into the shadows and hide, only to return to the light when I have regained my strength enough for me to say, 'Whatever, my life is better this way.' But I am reminded that the magnitude of the pain I am feeling is equal to the measure of my capacity for love."
“我发现自己正处于心碎的季节，因为一段爱情突然被欺骗而毁灭性地熄灭了，”这位出演《黑豹》的明星当时继续说道。“我很想跑到阴影里躲起来，只有当我恢复了足够的力量，才能回到光明中说:‘不管怎样，这样我的生活更好。’”但我被提醒，我所感受到的痛苦的程度等于我爱的能力的大小。”
"And so, I am choosing to face the pain, cultivating the courage to meet my life exactly as it is, and trusting that this too shall pass," she added.
“所以，我选择面对痛苦，培养勇气面对我的生活，并相信这一切都会过去，”她补充说。
"The promise, they say, is that a tender heart is what gives birth to fearlessness. I hope it’s true… I share this to keep it [100], and hoping that the knowledge of my experience might be useful to someone else out there experiencing the grip of heartbreak who is poised to try and escape from the pain and miss out on the wisdom that comes from it. Let’s face our pain so we don’t spread it."
他们说，这个承诺是，一颗温柔的心会孕育出无畏。我希望这是真的……我分享这些是为了保存它[100]，并希望我的经验对那些正在经历心碎的人有用，他们正准备逃离痛苦，却错过了从中获得的智慧。让我们面对我们的痛苦，这样我们就不会传播它。”
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