布洛克·戴维斯与谢娜·谢伊和她的妈妈争论心理健康问题
Brock Davies got in a heated conversation with Scheana Shay — and her mother — about his wife’s mental health issues.
布洛克·戴维斯和谢娜·谢伊以及她的母亲就他妻子的心理健康问题进行了激烈的交谈。
During a new episode of Vanderpump Rules, which aired on Tuesday, February 6, Scheana, 38, candidly discussed being diagnosed with OCD after welcoming her and Brock’s now-2-year-old daughter, Summer. Scheana struggled to leave her child because of intrusive thoughts, but she took a big step by asking friend Tori Keeth to babysit on a trial basis.
在2月6日周二播出的《Vanderpump Rules》新一集中，38岁的Scheana在欢迎了她和Brock两岁的女儿Summer之后，坦率地谈论了自己被诊断出患有强迫症。沙安娜因为有侵入性的想法而挣扎着离开她的孩子，但她迈出了一大步，让朋友托丽·基思试行照看孩子。
“If you could help a night or two when we need to be somewhere and she needs to be put in the crib, that is really all I am looking for from you,” Scheana told Tori, 24, while Brock, 32, and her mother, Erika van Olphen, sat in the same room. “Someone who I would also trust leaving.”
舍安娜对24岁的托里说:“如果我们需要去某个地方，她需要放在婴儿床上的时候，你能帮忙一两个晚上，这就是我对你的全部期望。”32岁的布洛克和她的母亲埃里卡·范·奥尔芬坐在同一个房间里。“一个我也相信会离开的人。”
Brock subsequently made a comment about Scheana’s “inability to let things go,” which upset her and Erika.
布洛克随后对舍安娜“无法释怀”发表了评论，这让她和埃里卡都很难过。
“That’s not what it is. Just shut up,” Scheana said before Brock asked, “OCD … Or what is it? Why did you just get so triggered?”
“不是这样的。“闭嘴，”谢纳在布洛克问之前说，“强迫症……还是什么?”你为什么这么激动?”
The conversation took an emotional turn as Scheana burst into tears, adding, “Because she’s my everything and I’m not just going to leave her with anyone. I’m saying this is a really big deal for me. To bring in someone else to help. That’s why I said, ‘Let’s start with Tori. Because I feel comfortable with that. Please.'”
谈话发生了感情上的转折，沙安娜泪流满面，并补充道:“因为她是我的一切，我不会把她留给任何人。我是说这对我来说真的很重要。让别人来帮忙。这就是为什么我说，‘让我们从托丽开始吧。因为我觉得这样很舒服。请。”
In response, Brock went on the defense by pointing out they weren’t “just going to leave” Summer with a random person.
作为回应，Brock继续为自己辩护，指出他们并不是要把Summer和一个随便的人“一起离开”。
“Why are you saying please to me? I have been asking for this for months,” he noted while elaborating in a confessional. “I just miss my wife just having a good day. Before we had Summer, we were this juggernaut of getting things done. Now for Scheana, day to day simple tasks can become monumental and overwhelming. It is a lot of thought process. The problem is when there are a lot of what ifs, we don’t get anything done.”
“你为什么对我说‘请’?”几个月来，我一直在要求这样做，”他在忏悔室中详细阐述道。“我只是想念我的妻子度过美好的一天。在我们有Summer之前，我们是完成事情的主宰。对于舍纳来说，日常的简单任务可能会变得巨大而不堪重负。这是一个很长的思考过程。问题是，如果有很多‘如果’，我们什么也做不成。”
Erika attempted to explain to Brock where Scheana was coming from, saying, “I just think sometimes you need to validate her feelings.”
Erika试图向Brock解释Scheana的想法，她说:“我只是觉得有时候你需要确认她的感受。”
Brock didn’t seem thrilled by the suggestion that he doesn’t support Scheana. He tried to argue his side of the story but ultimately ended up arguing with Scheana and Erika.
布洛克似乎对他不支持谢纳的说法并不感到兴奋。他试图为自己的观点辩护，但最终还是与谢纳和埃里卡发生了争执。
“There’s two of you validating her feelings right now. All I do is support you and I’m trying to help with that,” Brock noted as Erika shook her head. “Don’t [disagree]. You surround yourself with yes people.”
“现在有两个人在验证她的感受。我所做的就是支持你，我正在努力帮助你，”布洛克说，埃里卡摇了摇头。“别[反对]。你周围都是唯唯诺诺的人。”
Erika swiftly rejected the notion that her daughter relied on her. “I raised two daughters who don’t need anything from me. Do you two need my help or ask for my help with Summer? Yes,” she replied. “But that isn’t Scheana not being one of the most independent people I know.”
埃里卡很快否认了女儿依赖她的说法。“我养大了两个女儿，她们不需要我的任何东西。你们俩是需要我帮忙还是让我帮Summer?是的，”她回答。“但舍纳并不是我认识的最独立的人之一。”
Erika continued: “You have come far and I’m so grateful for your therapist for that. And you for putting in the work. And your friendship with [Tori] has helped so much.”
埃里卡继续说:“你已经走了很远，我非常感谢你的治疗师。也感谢你付出的努力。你和托丽的友谊帮了我很大的忙。”
By the end of the conversation, Scheana was able to relate more to her husband’s point.
谈话结束时，谢娜对丈夫的观点有了更多的理解。
“I think he is saying this because he feels like I always have to ask for your opinion and your approval and your assurance. He feels like you help too much sometimes and it is a hindrance,” she noted. “I hope I can get to a place where I’m not afraid to do things alone with my daughter. Where I don’t work about something bad happening to her every day or Brock or my mom. I want to be able to enjoy living in the moment and not think this is the last moment.”
“我想他这么说是因为他觉得我总是需要征求你的意见、你的同意和你的保证。他觉得有时候你帮得太多了，这是一种阻碍。”“我希望我能到达一个地方，在那里我不再害怕和我的女儿单独做事。在那里，我不用担心每天都有不好的事情发生在她身上或者布洛克，或者我妈妈身上。我希望能够享受生活在当下，而不是认为这是最后一刻。”
After Scheana, Erika and Tori all got emotional about the reality star’s fluctuating mental health, Brock attempted to find the positive in their tense talk.
谢娜、埃里卡和托里都对这位真人秀明星起伏不定的心理健康状况感到情绪激动，布洛克试图在他们紧张的谈话中找到积极的一面。
“This is why I wanted to talk about it. Because clearly we needed to talk about it,” he said as the group laughed.
“这就是我想谈论它的原因。因为很明显，我们需要谈谈这个问题。”
