美国女星雷切尔·林赛说与Bryan Abasolo过着“完全不同的生活”，以在离婚前“保护”他们的婚姻
Rachel Lindsay recently revealed that she and estranged husband Bryan Abasolo’s marriage had a few rough patches just weeks before he chose to end their relationship.
雷切尔·林赛最近透露，就在丈夫Bryan Abasolo选择结束他们的关系的几周前，她和分居的丈夫Bryan Abbasolo的婚姻经历了一些坎坷。
On Tuesday, news broke that Abasolo, 43, had filed for divorce in Los Angeles after four years of marriage.
周二，有消息称，43岁的阿巴索罗在结婚四年后在洛杉矶提出离婚。
A few weeks before the announcement, the 38-year-old former Bachelorette appeared on the Dec. 21 episode of Nick Viall’s The Viall Files podcast, where she admitted that she and Abasolo seemed to be on different pages at times.
在宣布这一消息的几周前，这位38岁的前单身女子出现在12月21日尼克·维亚尔的《维亚尔档案》播客上，她承认自己和阿巴索罗有时似乎在不同的页面上。
Lindsay, who works as a podcaster, TV host and author, said she and her chiropractor husband were living “totally different lives.”
林赛是一名播客、电视主持人和作家，她说她和她的脊椎指压治疗师丈夫过着“完全不同的生活”。
Expanding on how their careers played a factor in the amount of time they spent with one another, the television personality added, “Bryan is a sole practitioner [and] he leaves the house at 8. He comes home at 9 o’clock, 9:30 [at night] sometimes. It’s just him by himself."
这位电视名人进一步阐述了他们的职业生涯是如何影响他们相处时间的，他补充道：“布莱恩是唯一的从业者，他8岁就离开了家。他九点钟回家，有时是晚上九点半。只有他一个人。"
“Me, especially now that I’m not doing Extra, I have a lot more free time… and then I’m back in hustle mode trying to get a second job, so I go to events," Lindsay said. "So, we’re just in two totally different places.”
林赛说：“我，尤其是现在我没有参加Extra，我有了更多的空闲时间……然后我又回到了忙碌的状态，试图找到第二份工作，所以我去参加活动。所以，我们只是在两个完全不同的地方。”
She continued: “There’s not a lot of time to take pictures of each other and show what we’re doing because we’re in the bed or that kind of thing.”
她继续说道：“因为我们在床上或诸如此类的事情，没有太多时间互相拍照并展示我们在做什么。”
Lindsay told Viall, 43, that she and Abasolo don’t necessarily work together as well as the podcaster and his fiancée Natalie Joy do, adding that she had accepted it for the well-being of their relationship.
林赛告诉43岁的Viall，她和Abasolo不一定像播客主持人和他的未婚妻Natalie Joy那样合作得好，并补充说，为了他们关系的幸福，她接受了这一点。
“We don’t and we learned that! You gotta protect the marriage and we just don’t work well together. Not every couple can do that,” she said after complimenting what the former Bachelor and Joy, 25, have.
“我们没有，我们学到了这一点！你必须保护婚姻，我们只是不能很好地合作。不是每对夫妇都能做到这一点，”她在称赞这位前单身汉和25岁的Joy所拥有的一切后说道。
Some fans wondered why Lindsay and Abasolo did not post much content of themselves together, but the Texas-based attorney had a simple explanation.
一些粉丝想知道为什么林赛和阿巴索罗没有发布太多自己在一起的内容，但这位得克萨斯州的律师有一个简单的解释。
“We don’t put ourselves out there at all [except] maybe an anniversary or a holiday [post here and there], but I think I did that because people were so critical of us when we came off the show,” she said.
她说：“我们根本不把自己放在那里（除了）一个周年纪念日或假期（到处张贴），但我想我这么做是因为当我们离开节目时，人们对我们非常挑剔。”
“I just [was like], ‘I want to keep this for ourselves’ and, you know, marriage has ups and downs, but you never know when we’re good or when we’re not because we never put it out there,” she said during the episode. “I kind of want to keep it that way, so when I want to share something, I do.”
她在节目中说：“我只是想，‘我想把这个留给自己’，你知道，婚姻有起有落，但你永远不知道我们什么时候好，什么时候不好，因为我们从来没有把它放在那里。”“我有点想保持这种状态，所以当我想分享一些东西时，我会这样做。”
Elsewhere in the interview, she also admitted that she and Abasolo were “working on having a kid,” but “that’s been a little bit of a struggle, too.”
在采访的其他地方，她也承认自己和阿巴索罗“正在努力生孩子”，但“这也有点困难。”
Lindsay and Abasolo first met on season 13 of The Bachelorette back in 2017. Abasolo was an early standout and received the first impression rose. During the season finale filmed in Spain, Linsday selected Abasolo over Peter Krause and accepted his proposal.
林赛和阿巴索罗第一次见面是在2017年的《单身女子》第13季。阿巴索罗是早期的佼佼者，并获得了玫瑰的第一印象。在西班牙拍摄的本季大结局中，林斯戴选择了阿巴索罗而不是彼得·克劳斯，并接受了他的求婚。
Their divorce filing’s date was listed as Sunday and cited "irreconcilable differences."
他们提出离婚申请的日期被列为周日，理由是“不可调和的分歧”。
雷切尔·林赛最近透露，就在丈夫Bryan Abasolo选择结束他们的关系的几周前，她和分居的丈夫Bryan Abbasolo的婚姻经历了一些坎坷。
On Tuesday, news broke that Abasolo, 43, had filed for divorce in Los Angeles after four years of marriage.
周二，有消息称，43岁的阿巴索罗在结婚四年后在洛杉矶提出离婚。
A few weeks before the announcement, the 38-year-old former Bachelorette appeared on the Dec. 21 episode of Nick Viall’s The Viall Files podcast, where she admitted that she and Abasolo seemed to be on different pages at times.
在宣布这一消息的几周前，这位38岁的前单身女子出现在12月21日尼克·维亚尔的《维亚尔档案》播客上，她承认自己和阿巴索罗有时似乎在不同的页面上。
Lindsay, who works as a podcaster, TV host and author, said she and her chiropractor husband were living “totally different lives.”
林赛是一名播客、电视主持人和作家，她说她和她的脊椎指压治疗师丈夫过着“完全不同的生活”。
Expanding on how their careers played a factor in the amount of time they spent with one another, the television personality added, “Bryan is a sole practitioner [and] he leaves the house at 8. He comes home at 9 o’clock, 9:30 [at night] sometimes. It’s just him by himself."
这位电视名人进一步阐述了他们的职业生涯是如何影响他们相处时间的，他补充道：“布莱恩是唯一的从业者，他8岁就离开了家。他九点钟回家，有时是晚上九点半。只有他一个人。"
“Me, especially now that I’m not doing Extra, I have a lot more free time… and then I’m back in hustle mode trying to get a second job, so I go to events," Lindsay said. "So, we’re just in two totally different places.”
林赛说：“我，尤其是现在我没有参加Extra，我有了更多的空闲时间……然后我又回到了忙碌的状态，试图找到第二份工作，所以我去参加活动。所以，我们只是在两个完全不同的地方。”
She continued: “There’s not a lot of time to take pictures of each other and show what we’re doing because we’re in the bed or that kind of thing.”
她继续说道：“因为我们在床上或诸如此类的事情，没有太多时间互相拍照并展示我们在做什么。”
Lindsay told Viall, 43, that she and Abasolo don’t necessarily work together as well as the podcaster and his fiancée Natalie Joy do, adding that she had accepted it for the well-being of their relationship.
林赛告诉43岁的Viall，她和Abasolo不一定像播客主持人和他的未婚妻Natalie Joy那样合作得好，并补充说，为了他们关系的幸福，她接受了这一点。
“We don’t and we learned that! You gotta protect the marriage and we just don’t work well together. Not every couple can do that,” she said after complimenting what the former Bachelor and Joy, 25, have.
“我们没有，我们学到了这一点！你必须保护婚姻，我们只是不能很好地合作。不是每对夫妇都能做到这一点，”她在称赞这位前单身汉和25岁的Joy所拥有的一切后说道。
Some fans wondered why Lindsay and Abasolo did not post much content of themselves together, but the Texas-based attorney had a simple explanation.
一些粉丝想知道为什么林赛和阿巴索罗没有发布太多自己在一起的内容，但这位得克萨斯州的律师有一个简单的解释。
“We don’t put ourselves out there at all [except] maybe an anniversary or a holiday [post here and there], but I think I did that because people were so critical of us when we came off the show,” she said.
她说：“我们根本不把自己放在那里（除了）一个周年纪念日或假期（到处张贴），但我想我这么做是因为当我们离开节目时，人们对我们非常挑剔。”
“I just [was like], ‘I want to keep this for ourselves’ and, you know, marriage has ups and downs, but you never know when we’re good or when we’re not because we never put it out there,” she said during the episode. “I kind of want to keep it that way, so when I want to share something, I do.”
她在节目中说：“我只是想，‘我想把这个留给自己’，你知道，婚姻有起有落，但你永远不知道我们什么时候好，什么时候不好，因为我们从来没有把它放在那里。”“我有点想保持这种状态，所以当我想分享一些东西时，我会这样做。”
Elsewhere in the interview, she also admitted that she and Abasolo were “working on having a kid,” but “that’s been a little bit of a struggle, too.”
在采访的其他地方，她也承认自己和阿巴索罗“正在努力生孩子”，但“这也有点困难。”
Lindsay and Abasolo first met on season 13 of The Bachelorette back in 2017. Abasolo was an early standout and received the first impression rose. During the season finale filmed in Spain, Linsday selected Abasolo over Peter Krause and accepted his proposal.
林赛和阿巴索罗第一次见面是在2017年的《单身女子》第13季。阿巴索罗是早期的佼佼者，并获得了玫瑰的第一印象。在西班牙拍摄的本季大结局中，林斯戴选择了阿巴索罗而不是彼得·克劳斯，并接受了他的求婚。
Their divorce filing’s date was listed as Sunday and cited "irreconcilable differences."
他们提出离婚申请的日期被列为周日，理由是“不可调和的分歧”。
