美国歌手达柳斯·拉克说，从离婚中学到了“很多”关于自己的东西：“生活还在继续”

For Darius Rucker, divorce has been a learning experience.

对达柳斯·拉克来说，离婚是一次学习经历。

The Hootie & the Blowfish frontman, 57, opened up about his split from estranged wife Beth Leonard — which he announced on social media in July 2020 — in a new episode of Apple Music’s Today's Country Radio with Kelleigh Bannen.

这位57岁的Hootie&The Blowfish乐队主唱在苹果音乐的《今日乡村电台》与Kelleigh Bannen的新一期节目中公开了他与分居的妻子Beth Leonard的分手消息——他于2020年7月在社交媒体上宣布了这一消息。

When asked what he has learned about himself through his divorce from Leonard, 56, after 20 years of marriage, Rucker said, “A lot.”

当被问及在与56岁的伦纳德结婚20年后离婚，他对自己了解了什么时，鲁克说：“很多。”

He quickly elaborated, telling host Bannen, “I learned how there’s help out there for people.”

他很快详细阐述了这一点，并告诉主持人Bannen：“我学到了如何为人们提供帮助。”

"You know, being raised the way I was and where I was, that’s not always … and in the Black community especially, that’s frowned upon a lot, too,” continued Rucker, who was born and raised in South Carolina. “But I learned that there’s a lot of people out there that’ll talk to you, that’ll help you a lot.”

在南卡罗来纳州出生和长大的鲁克继续说道：“你知道，以我以前和现在的方式长大，这并不总是……尤其是在黑人社区，这也很令人反感。但我了解到，有很多人会和你说话，这会对你有很大帮助。”

Rucker, who wrote the emotional song “Never Been Over” about his split, also said that music has “always been my therapy.”

鲁克写了一首关于分手的情感歌曲《Never Been Over》，他还说音乐“一直是我的治疗方法”。

Of the track — which contains the lyrics, “We've been a lot of things / But we've never been over” — the singer-songwriter said, “You write a song like that, and you sing it over and over, and you cry sometimes when you sing it.”

关于这首歌，歌词是“我们经历了很多事情/但我们从未结束”，创作型歌手说：“你写了一首这样的歌，你唱了一遍又一遍，有时你唱的时候会哭。”

“It’s just one of those songs, and I love it,” he said, adding that when he finished it, he “was like, ‘Man, that was therapy right there.’”

“这只是其中一首歌，我喜欢它，”他说，并补充说，当他完成这首歌时，他“想，‘伙计，这就是治疗。’”

The “Only Wanna Be with You” singer also said that when it comes to the guilt surrounding the divorce, his “50-something self is a lot more forgiving than the mid-20-something self” — because he needs to be.

这位“只想和你在一起”的歌手还说，当谈到离婚带来的内疚时，他“50多岁的自己比20多岁的自我要宽容得多”——因为他需要这样。