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Hold Hands 握住双手
Like hugging, holding hands is something that we often neglect to do when a relationship becomes cozy and familiar. Try taking your partner's hand when walking down the street, or hold their hands across a table in a restaurant. Being in contact physically helps you feel closer emotionally. This is especially important if you need to talk through a difficult issue or problem. Holding hands can also be a visible demonstration of support if your partner is upset or feeling down.
和拥抱一样，握手是当我们和他人之间的关系变得舒适熟悉之后常常忽略的动作。走在大街上，或者隔着餐桌，拉起爱人的手，生理上的联系会让你心理上感到更加亲近。在你需要告诉他们一些重要的事情或问题的时候，这一举动尤为重要。当你的爱人情绪低落的时候，握住他/她的手，是一种对他/她看得见的支持。

Make A Special Meal 做特别的一餐
If Friday nights usually mean ordering takeout, why not offer to cook for a change? Make a special meal for your partner (you don't need an excuse for this--it doesn't have to be Valentine's day or an anniversary!) Include their favorite foods, take a few minutes to set the table, to light candles and put music on, and your usual forgettable evening slumped on the sofa can become a night to remember.
如果周五的晚上你们通常叫外卖，试试这回自己下厨。不需要非得等到情人节或者纪念日，你随时都可以为你的爱人做一桌他们爱吃的东西。花几分钟铺好桌子，点上几根蜡烛，放点音乐，通常窝在沙发里度过的无聊时光就会成为你们难忘的一夜……

Dress Up 打扮自己
In the early stages of a relationship, you probably made the effort to look your best. Of course it's nice to get to the point where you can lounge around in your jammies or your over sized, hole-ridden t-shirt...but occasionally getting dressed up can rekindle that early excitement in the relationship. Why not go out to a "swankier" restaurant than usual (it doesn't have to be much more expensive), or just get dressed up in your party clothes for a special meal for two at home?
恋情刚刚开始的时候，你可能还很在乎你的装扮。穿着睡衣、宽松的T恤到处跑当然很舒适，不过偶尔你也可以尝试打扮下自己，重燃初恋时的激情。去家平常高档一点的餐厅(也不需要贵很多)，或者在家吃饭的时候，偶尔穿上你去派对时候的礼服。

Give a Foot/Shoulder Rub 给他们擦肩、擦脚
Modern life is stressful and many of us have aches and pains caused by tense muscles. A shoulder rub, back rub or foot rub is a wonderful way to tell your partner "I love you". It demonstrates that their physical well being and comfort is important to you, and it's also a great way to reinforce physical and emotional closeness。
现代生活纷繁忙碌，很多人都因为肌肉紧张有这样那样的疼痛。给爱人擦擦身体是向他们表达心意的绝佳方式。他们能够感受到他们的健康对你来说有多重要，而且使你们的身心更为亲密。

Listen to Them 倾听他们说话
It's easy to talk over people or to tune out most of what they're saying whilst reading the newspaper or chatting online with friends. Listen actively to your partner--when they want to talk, put down what you're doing, and focus all your attention on them. Listen for what they don't say; unvoiced concerns or worries, or hints at what they'd really like. Nod and make eye-contact to show that you're paying attention。
读报纸、上网聊天的时候很容易和家人搭讪，试着在他们说话的时候放下手中的事情，全神贯注去听他们讲话。试着领会他们没说出口的的心事，了解他们喜欢什么。点头、眼神交流都表示你听得很专心。