遇到喜欢的女孩你会怎么去了解她

今天的这段对话，在讨论约喜欢的女孩，
 
遇到喜欢的女孩你会怎么了解她
 
来听今天的讲解:
 
A: Hey, Crystal, I need some advice yo!
 
嗨，克里斯托尔，我需要你的建议！
 
B: What's up, George?
 
什么事，乔治？
 
A: So, there's this like red-headed girl in class and I kind of got a crush on her but ...
 
我喜欢班里的一个红发女孩，可是……
 
B: Oooh!
 
哦！
 
A: Uuurr! But, yeah, I don't know, you know, how to ask her out. I don't even know if she knows my name, but yeah.
 
嗯！可是我不知道怎么约她出去。我甚至都不知道她知不知道我的名字。
 
B: Ah, come on!
 
不是吧！
 
A: You got any advice?
 
你有什么建议吗？
 
B: I would personally just be natural and just go straight-forward?
 
我个人建议你自然些，直接些。
 
A: Go straight-forward and ...
 
直接……
 
B: And ask her out?
 
约她出去？
 
A: How I do that?
 
我要怎么做？
 
B: I don't know. For my personal advice I think you should just go straight forward and say "Hi, my name is George" and give her an appearance.
 
我也不知道。我个人建议你直接说，“你好，我叫乔治”，让她认识你。
 
A: Hold on. I'm gonna write this down.
 
等一下。我要把这个记下来。
 
B: OK. And next step is "If you are free" oh, you always have to check if she's either married, or if she's a lesbian, or if she is single.
 
好，接下来，你要问“你有空吗”，对了，你还要确认一下她是否已婚，或者她是不是女同性恋，还有她是不是单身。
 
A: OK.
 
好。
 
B: So, number three is what you're looking for.
 
第三步就是你要约她了。
 
A: OK, number three.
 
好，第三步。
 
B: So, if she is single, just say, hey, how about we go out for a cup of coffee or something.
 
如果她是单身，你可以说，嘿，我们去喝杯咖啡怎么样。
 
A: OK, coffee.
 
好，咖啡。
 
B: And, yeah, that's how you get her.
 
好，这样你就能约她出去了。
 
A: So, yeah, what if she doesn't like coffee though? I mean, what else could we do we on a date? Assuming she will say yes. What's fun to do on a date anyway?
 
那她要不喜欢喝咖啡怎么办？除了喝咖啡，约会还能做什么？假设她说好的话，约会的时候还能做什么有趣的事？
 
B: Fun to do on a date! It's just the fact that you're being with her and just try to get to know her more.
 
约会时有趣的事！就是你和她在一起，努力地去了解她。
 
A: Wait, wait, wait one second. Do I need to pay for this?
 
等等，等等，等一下。约会时我要买单吗？
 
B: I don't think you should pay on the first date. I think sometimes that can be offensive to women.
 
我想第一次约会你不必买单。有时这对女性来说是种冒犯。
 
A: Oh, that's great because I'm totally broke.
 
哦，那太好了，因为我基本上没什么钱了。
 
B: I think you should just ask her casually, not like a date-date, just say, Hey, I would like to know you a little bit more, and just go out for a small little drink, like go to that new cafe that's open, like a lot of girls think that place is so cute. I think you should take her there.
 
我想你约她的时候应该自然些，不是那种正式的约会，你可以说，“嘿，我想多了解你一些，”你可以约她去喝点东西，可以去那家新开的咖啡厅，许多女孩觉得那家店很可爱。我想你可以带她去那儿。
 
A: But I think cafe's are boring.
 
可是我觉得咖啡厅很无聊。
 
B: Cafe's are boring. Men! Women don't think so. This is the point. Write it down.
 
咖啡厅很无聊。那是男生的想法！女生可不这么想。这是重点。写下来吧。
 
A: All right.
 
好。