恋爱物语 像男生一样去约会

Not having much luck in the romance department? Try dating like a man — it may be just the jolt your love life needs.

Step 1: Make the first move Step 1:积极主动
Don’t wait for a man you’re interested in to approach you — strike up a conversation with him. Women who make the first move have up to a 90 percent success rate.

 

Step 2: Play the field Step 2:不要只关注某一个人
Play the field, even if you’ve met someone you really like. To date like a man, you must operate on the assumption that there might be someone even better out there — at least until you’ve had enough time to know for sure that there isn’t.

 

 

Step 3: Chill Step 3:学会冷静
Chill out! Don’t view every person you date as a potential life partner. Focus on having fun, not finding true love.

 

Step 4: Don't get too invested Step 4:不要为他花很多钱
Don’t invest too much of yourself early in a relationship. Save the personal sacrifices and grand gestures for when he’s earned them.

 

Step 5: Keep your options open Step 5:给予双方充分的自由
Keep your options open. Resist making plans with a man too far in advance, and don’t try to book him for holidays or pin him down to vacations too early in the romance.

 

Step 6: Don't settle down too soon Step 6:不要陷得太深太快
Don’t settle down until you have the education and experience to take care of yourself. Men often like to wait until their career is established and they’re financially stable before they get serious with someone, and that’s a good.