恋爱物语:敞开心扉 让爱常驻

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Don’t be absent in a relationship anymore. Use these tips to better receive the love and affection you dole out on daily basis as you draw closer to that special someone.

 

 

 

You Will Need

*Honesty
*Trust
*Compassion
*Practice accepting affection
*Personal confession
*Written emotions (optional)

 

Step 1: Know yourself 自我认知，弄清楚自己是谁，相信自己值得被爱。
Know who you are and what you want in a relationship. Accepting yourself as worthy to be loved isn’t always easy, and can take some practice, but it is the first step to letting love in.

Step 2: Ask for what you want 想要什么就说什么。
Ask your significant other for something specific such as a kiss in the morning, a hug, or kind words. Practice accepting these gifts so that when they come unexpectedly, you’ll know how to react.

Step 3: Learn to trust other people 学会信任他人，要顺其自然。
Learn to trust other people and be more open to new experiences. Don’t try to micromanage and make everything perfect, just let things happen naturally and accept them as they come.

Step 4: Develop compassion 要有同情心，要学会理解你的伴侣。
Develop compassion for other people, especially for your partner. Talk to them about how they feel at different moments and learn to experience these emotions with them at the same time.

Discover how to put your emotions into words to better understand them.

Step 5: Share something personal 要学会与亲近的人分享你的个人感情。
Share something personal with someone you love and describe how it made you feel. Accept their empathy for you openly to build a stronger connection and allow yourself be loved.

A 2010 MRI scan revealed that love is felt in the reward and pleasure zones of the brain and elicits the same feelings of a drug addiction.

 

[重点讲解]

significant adj. 重大的；有效的；有意义的

             You give me a significant lesson.

             你给我上了重要的一课。

compassion n. 同情；怜悯

             The only appropriate response is compassion.

             唯一正确的回应是同情。