你不应该与同事分享的事情

你不应该与同事分享的事情

Disclosing your salary, judging your incompetent coworkers, or revealing you are about to quit... are things you should never do at work.

透露你的薪水,抱怨你的无能的同事,或揭示你要辞职…是你不应该做的事。

You cannot build good working relationships without being open to colleagues. However, you need to skillfully choose what - and what not to share. Because revealing things you shouldn't reveal can ruin your career.

如果不向同事敞开心扉，你就无法建立良好的工作关系。然而,你需要巧妙地选择——而不是分享。因为你不应该暴露的事情透露后会毁了你的事业。

1. You hate your job

你讨厌你的工作

Nobody wants to hear you lament how much you hate your job. That shows you are a negative person, not a good member of the team, and will decrease your morale.

没有人愿意听你抱怨你讨厌你的工作。说明你是一个消极的人,不是一个好的团队成员,将会降低团队的士气。

The boss will be very quick to find out who the culprit is down to and also know that there are always enthusiastic candidates waiting outside.

老板将很快找到罪魁祸首是谁,也知道总有热情的候选人外面等候。

2. You think someone is incompetent

你认为某人很无能

There are always weak people at work, and usually everyone knows who it is. If you can't help them improve or don't have the power to fire them, there's wrong with "gossiping" about their weaknesses.

在工作中总有相对较弱的人,通常每个人都知道他是谁。如果你不能帮助他们改善或没有解雇他们的权力,就不要“闲聊”对他们的弱点。

Gossiping about your coworkers' weaknesses makes your image worse.

八卦你同事的弱点让你的形象更糟。

3. The amount of money you earn

你的薪水

Parents may want to hear about how much money you make each month. But sharing that at work is just a nuisance. Salary for employees is never completely fair. So the fact that you disclose your salary to your coworkers will make them compare.

父母可能希望听到你每个月赚多少钱。但在工作中分享只是一个麻烦。员工的工资从来都不是完全公平的。所以你向你的同事透露你的薪水会让他们比较。

As soon as people know about your salary, everything you do is weighed against that income.

一旦知道了你的薪水，你所做的每件事都会被拿来和你的收入作比较。

4. You don't care about other people's business

你不关心别人的事

Excellent employees always want the group to succeed, not just themselves. Regardless of your actual motivations (some often work for money), announcing selfish goals will never help you achieve it.

优秀的员工总是希望集团成功,不仅仅是自己。不管你的实际动机是什么(有些人工作往往是为了钱)，自私的目标永远不会实现。

5. Excessive jokes

过度的笑话

Be careful what you say and who you imply. Insulting jokes will make others feel terrible and make you very bad.

小心你说的话，不要暗示谁。侮辱性的笑话会让别人感觉很糟糕，也会让你很糟糕。

When you want to joke with someone, consider its suitability to how close you are to that person. If you feel that they might be hurt by your joke, it's best not to say it.

当你想和某人开玩笑时，考虑一下你和那个人的关系有多亲密。如果你觉得他们可能会被你的笑话伤害，最好就不要说。

6. You are looking for a new job

你正在寻找一份新工作

Sharing that you are looking for a job has the same consequences as over-joking. When you reveal that you are about to quit your job, you will suddenly become a waste of other people's time. You may also not be able to find a new job, so it's best to wait until you find one before sharing with everyone.

告诉别人你正在找工作和过度开玩笑的后果是一样的。当你透露你要辞职的时候，你会突然变成一个浪费别人时间的人。你也可能找不到一份新工作，所以最好等你找到了一个，再和别人分享。