个性互补在一起才幸福？都是扯淡！

Here are some other reasons why opposites don’t attract, according to science and experts:

以下就是科学和专家研究出来的异质性格的人不会相互吸引的一些其他原因：

1. People With Similar Personalities Are Happier In Their Relationships

1、性格相似的人在交往中更幸福

A 2014 study of 174 couples conducted by researchers Nathan Hudson and Chris Fraley found that couples who were more alike in personality were more satisfied in their relationships than those who were different.

2014年，研究人员奈登·哈德森和克里斯·雷利对174对夫妇进行研究发现，个性相似的夫妻比个性不同的夫妻更幸福美满。

2. People Who Have Great Relationships Share Similar Backgrounds

2、相处融洽的人有相似的背景

As Sean Horan assistant professor in relationship communication at DePaul University told cnn in 2014, people who have really good relationships have similar backgrounds, values and attitudes about things they like and dislike.

2014年，德保罗大学的人际沟通方面的助理教授肖恩·霍兰在cnn说过，相处融洽的人有着相似的背景、价值观以及对他们喜欢和不喜欢的东西持有相似的态度。

3. Similarity Is The Key To A Long-Lasting Relationship

3、相似性对长期持久的关系至关重要

A 2013 study of eHarmony’s Compatibility Matching System found that even though people with opposite personalities may be attracted to each other at first, the key to a long-lasting relationship is similarity.

2013年，“e和谐”婚恋网站一项兼容配对系统研究发现，尽管性格相反的人可能最开始会相互吸引，但一段长久关系的关键还是两人的相似性。