面试遭刁难的十大应对技巧

　　4. Get to know your interviewer. "If a vein is popping out of your potential new employer"s head, ask questions directly related to the interviewer, such as, 'How long have you been with the company? What role did you have when you started? Tell me the story of working your way up,'" says career consultant Angela Lussier of 365 Degrees Consulting. "If you get her talking about herself, you can quickly turn her lion's roar into a kitten's meow."

　　主动去了解你的面试官。"当你的潜在雇主开始不耐烦的时候，问一些和他有直接关联的事情，如：‘您在公司工作几年了？刚开始的时候您从事什么职位呢？可以告诉我您在工作中的处事方式吗？"365°咨询公司的职业顾问Angela Lussier如此建议。他还说："如果你可以让你的潜在雇主开始谈自己的事情，那她马上会从一个发怒的母老虎变成一个温顺的小猫咪。"

　　5. Address the issue. "The best thing someone can do when faced with a hostile interviewer is pause and ask if he/she has done/said something to upset or irritate the person conducting the interview. Usually, people don't realize that they are coming across in such an off-putting way, and they quickly adjust when the issue is raised, but gently," suggests Donna Flagg, workplace expert and founder of The Krysalis Group, a business and management consulting firm。

　　解决争端。Donna Flagg是一位职场专家，他创办了一家名为Krysalis Group的职业和管理咨询公司。他说："当你面对一位有敌意的面试官时，最好的方法就是停下来，问问他/她，是不是你在面试中说了什么让他生气的话冒犯到他了？很多时候，人们并没有认识到自己正在说的话(做的事情)会让人不愉快。当他们意识到以后，就会马上不着痕迹的调整过来。"

　　"6. Remember that it may be a test. "They may just be testing you -- to see how you handle pressure or deal with certain circumstances. They want to know if you stay calm and collected or if it gets to you and affects your decision-making and actions. Many times these situations arise in business, so, unbeknownst to you, they may be placing you in a bit of a role-play scenario," reveals Bruce Powell, a managing partner with executive recruitment firm IQ Partners Inc。

　　记住这可能是一次试探。IQ Partners Inc。是一家猎头公司，Bruce Powell是其合伙经理人，他揭露说："面试中面试官故意刁难你，可能是正在试探你---他们想测试你是如果处理压力以及类似情况的。他们想知道碰到这样的情况时，你是否可以保持镇静，或者说这样的事情那个会影响你的决策以及面试中的发挥。职业中会出现很多这样的情况，所以在不了解你的情况下，他们可能会通过在既定的场景模拟中观察你的表现。"