面试遭刁难的十大应对技巧

　　The interview is undoubtedly the most important part of your job search. Your network and your resume may help you get your foot in the door, but you"ve got to ace the interview to get the job. What happens, though, if your interviewer is -- gulp! -- mean or abrasive?

　　面试无疑是找工作中最重要的部分。网络和简历是工作的敲门砖，但是要得到这份工作，你还需要在面试中表现出色。但是如果面试官很刁难怎么办呢？

　　Read on for advice from job-search experts and learn how to save the day -- and when you should walk away。

　　读读以下专家的意见----怎样转危为安？何时该明智的选择离开？

　　1. Remain calm. Job-search mentor Roberta Chinsky Matuson of Human Resource Solutions suggests, "Take a moment to compose yourself. Then simply answer the question using a calm tone. Eventually the person will stop being so hostile, particularly if you are responding in a way that is not giving them any fuel for their fire."

　　保持冷静。人力资源解决方案公司求职顾问Chinsky Matuson说："先调整一下自己的情绪，然后用冷静的语气简单的回答他的提问。 特别是如果你的回答让面试官无从刁难的话，他最终就不会再对你有敌意了。

　　2. Watch what you say. "Do not let an interviewer's tone push you over a ledge to potentially say things that you may later regret. Remember that business networks of people are wide and expansive, and your negative response or behavior in an interview could have lasting repercussions in wider circles," says Justin C. Honaman, a strategic business process and technology professional。

　　注意你说的话。Justin C. Honaman精通业务流程和专业技术，他建议说："不要因为面试官的语调，而说出一些自己可能会后悔的话。记住，职业人士的社交关系网广泛而富有不断变化的可能性，你在面试中的不良表现可能会在更大的职业圈内给你带来持续的坏影响。"

　　3. Remain confident. Stephen R. Balzac, president of 7 Steps Ahead, an organizational development firm, says, "The more confident you are, the easier it is to operate on the assumption that you're not dealing with malice. That gives you the room to ask the interviewer if there's something wrong or if this isn't a good time. Frequently, what comes off as hostility is due to something else entirely: The interviewer may be distracted, upset about something else, have a tight deadline, etc. In one case, an interviewer's young son was extremely ill and when offered a chance to reschedule, he jumped at it."

　　保持自信。Stephen R. Balzac，在一家组织与发展公司的工作。他说："你越自信的话，将面试官的敌意当着空气处理起来就越简单。这样，你可以心平气和的问面试官是不是哪里出错了，还是现在面试的时机不恰当。面试官的敌意经常可能是一些与面试完全无关的事情造成的：可能他心情很差，为什么事情而难受，或者工作交期催得很急等等。比如有一次，一位面试官的儿子得了重病，如果你和他重新约下一次面试的话，他会马上同意的。"