怎样和你不喜欢的人一起工作

       Entertain

　　取悦他人

　　To do this, first you must be able to have a sense of humor. Sure, to have a sense of humor around someone you don’t like is tough. But the tougher thing is that you should have a sense of humor when the situation becomes tense and when you feel animosity. Cracking a joke and looking at the lighter side of things can break a smile on the face of people you don’t like.

　　要做到这点， 首先你一定要拥有幽默感。当然， 对着一个你不喜欢的人产生幽默感挺不容易的。而更加困难的是，当形势变得紧张并且你感受到敌意时，你更应具备幽默感。讲讲笑话， 多考虑事情较好的那面，能让你不喜欢的人面露微笑。

　　When you do that you can be someone fun to work with. Perhaps you never think of it, but you are someone who is tough to work with. Have you ever considered you are part of the problem?

　　如果你能做到以上那些，你就能成为一个有趣的共事者。或许你从未想过， 你可能是个很难共事的人。你是否考虑过你也是问题的一部分呢？

　　Ask yourself, are you fun to work with? Do you complain and gossip a lot? Perhaps you are too dogmatic with certain things. You could entertain the person with an afterwork drink. Or invite the person out for lunch. Sometimes it takes more than one session for the person to open up. At the very least, they do feel your sincerity. In a less formal situation people can open up and speak more frankly.

　　问问自己， 你是个有趣的共事者吗？你经常抱怨或议论是非吗？也许你对某些问题过于固执己见。你可以招待那个人下班后喝一杯。或者邀请那个人一起吃顿午饭。有时候需要不止一次地尝试， 对方才会敞开心扉。但至少他们能感受到你的真诚。在不那么正式的场合，人们往往更容易敞开心扉，开诚布公地交流。

　　Assuming the above is difficult to do, try to entertain yourself by the tough questions and resistance coming from the person. In work situations, you know the people whom you don’t like is likely to raise toughquestions in order to make them difficult for you. It can be very satisfying when you are able to answer them. Dogged determination can wear even the most difficult person down.

　　假设以上方法太困难了，那么就尽可能地从来自这个人的棘手问题和阻挠中获得愉悦吧。在职场中， 你知道你不喜的人很可能提出棘手的问题，用以给你造成困难。当你能够解决它们时，你会非常满足。坚定的决心能使最难相处的人折服。