怎样和你不喜欢的人一起工作

       Enlighten

　　了解彼此

　　Have you ever tried to enlighten them about yourself? Have you ever tried to enlighten yourself about them? Perhaps one reason you do not like them is that you do not understand them. And because of it, whatever they do doesn’t seem right. Then all the negativity feeds on each other and the animosity grows.

　　你是否曾尝试过让他们了解你呢？你是否曾尝试让自己去了解他们？也许你不喜欢他们的一个原因是你不了解他们。正因如此，他们的所作所为在你看起来才不恰当。然后所有这些消极性会侵蚀彼此，让敌意滋长。

　　Seek to allow them to get to know you personally.The information about you may enlighten them about you. It gives them insight into who you are, why you do those things and the way you do them. When people understand you more, there is a better chance they will begin to like you. Of course, there is no guarantee it will work. At the very least there is a chance.

　　想方设法让他们了解你这个人。关于你的信息可能会令他们熟悉你。那会让他们深入了解你这个人，你为什么会做那事以及你的做事方法。当人们更多地了解你时，他们才很有可能开始喜欢你。当然，不能保证这一定能奏效。但至少这是一次机会。

　　Get to know them on a more personal level too.Enlighten yourself about them. What makes them tick, what you do disturbs them or even irritates them? Perhaps with this piece of information you may start to know how to work with people you don’t like.

　　你也要从私人的角度更多地了解他们。你要弄明白他们工作的动力是什么，你做什么事会妨碍到他们或甚至使他们发怒。也许从这些信息中你可以开始学会如何与你不喜欢的人共事。