第一次给美女打电话该说啥？

        Hey, it’s Ben, from The Modern Man. One of the cool techniques I talk about at the Dating Power seminar is the Caller Guessing Technique. This is a very interesting and unique technique that you can use when you make that first phone call to a girl to really avoid that awkward moment, that awkward tension that usually happens when you make that first call. So, check it out.

　　大家好，我是“现代男人”的本。我在“约会能力”培训班中谈到的一个很棒的技巧便是“揣测谁的来电”。这是一个非常有趣而且非常独特的技巧，它能帮助你在第一次给某个女孩打电话的时候避免尴尬——这种尴尬的紧张情绪通常在你们的这种初次通话中出现。嗯，来听听吧。

　　This is very important. This is like a critical point from, you’ve done all that greatwork, you’ve been out interacting, you’ve got her phone number, now it’s like ‘Right, I’ve, I’ve,OK, I’ve got to move forward with this, I’ve gotta take some steps. I need to set up a date to really get to that point where I can establish some sort of dating relationship’ ,whatever it is that you’re looking for.

　　首次通话非常重要。你能做的都做了，你们已经面对面交流过了，你已经拿到了她的电话号码，相对于这些而言，首次通话就像一个临界点。现在，你在寻思，“好了，我已经……已经……好吧，我得再进一步，我得采取点行动才行。我需要先约她出来一次，才能真正达到建立某种关系的地步”——不管你期望是什么关系，你都得先约到她。

　　Why is calling important? Again,it demonstrates confidence; it’s the critical point of moving your interaction forward. So you just need to do it. There’s no two ways about it, just…you need to make that call. Now, there are some guidelines that we’re gonna give you to make that call a lot easier,and these are very effective things that you should follow before and during that first call. The reason why so many guys struggle with the first call, is simply because they don’t know what to do, they don’t know what to say, they don’t know what the structure should be on the phone.

　　为什么打电话很重要呢？还是那句话，首次通话能表现出你的自信，是推动你的交流前进的临界点。所以你必须要走出这一步。没有第二个选择，你需要打这通电话。现在，我们要给你提供一些指导，帮助你更轻松地打出这通电话。这些指导都很有效，你应该在首次通话前及通话中贯彻下去。有那么多男人纠结于首次通话的原因仅仅在于，他们不知道该做什么，不知道该说什么，不知道通话时的条理性是怎样的。