VOA常速英语听力：如何在社交中展现真正的兴趣

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VOA常速英语，以其地道的发音、丰富的时事内容，成为提升英语听力与理解能力的关键途径。它不仅让全球听众即时了解世界动态，还促进了跨文化交流，对于英语学习者而言，是不可或缺的听力训练资源，对提升语言综合能力至关重要。让我们一起走进今天的VOA常速英语听力练习：如何在社交中展现真正的兴趣。

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I used to feel so much pressure in social interactions, pressure that I had to say something interesting or that I had to be interesting. Until I learned, and this is again from Carnegie, he said, "Be interested, not interesting."

我曾经在社交互动中感到很大的压力，压力迫使我要说些有趣的话，或者让自己变得有趣。直到我学到，这又是从卡耐基那里学到的，他说：“要对别人感兴趣，而不是让别人觉得你有趣。”

I think, at its core, people will find you interesting if you find them interesting. All of us just want to feel acknowledged and listened to. And the best way to connect with somebody is to just truly care about what they're saying.

我认为，从根本上来说，如果你对别人感兴趣，那么别人也会觉得你有趣。我们所有人都希望得到认可和倾听。与人建立联系的最佳方式就是真正关心他们所说的话。

And you can show this through your actions, by asking questions, by leaning in, and using nonverbal cues like smiling and nodding to show them that you're fully engaged in the conversation.

你可以通过你的行动来展示这一点，比如提问、身体前倾，以及使用非语言信号，如微笑和点头，来表明你完全投入到对话中。

Now, this is a crucial tip: if somebody shares with you that, for example, they love to paint, I think it can kind of be almost an instinct for us to try to relate that story back to our own life. So, you might say something like, "Ah, my uncle paints too."

现在，这是一个关键的建议：如果有人和你分享，比如他们喜欢画画，我想我们几乎都会本能地试图把这个故事与自己的生活联系起来。所以，你可能会说：“啊，我叔叔也画画。”

And while you might think that this creates a sense of shared experience, it can actually really derail the conversation, because it's taking the story away from them and it's turning it towards yourself.

虽然你可能认为这创造了一种共享体验的感觉，但实际上它可能会让对话偏离轨道，因为它把故事从他们身上夺走，并转向你自己。

So, instead of following your connection to the subject, you can instead try to follow your curiosity. Ask them about their art, whether they prefer acrylics or oils, ask them about their latest creation. Essentially, this just gives them space to share more, and it continues to show that you're interested in them.

所以，与其跟随你与话题的联系，不如试着跟随你的好奇心。问问他们的艺术，他们更喜欢丙烯还是油画，问问他们最新的创作。基本上，这只是给他们更多的空间来分享，并继续表明你对他们感兴趣。

Ultimately, people will remember not what you did or what you said, but how you made them feel.

最终，人们会记住的不是你做了什么或说了什么，而是你给他们的感觉。

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