When you graduate, taking your first steps out of College or University into the big, bad world is, how to put it...a little bit messed up.

当你毕业的时候，走出大学的第一步，踏入这个又大又坏的世界，该怎么说呢?有点乱。

In the post-graduation transition, it's easy to feel lost and confused.

刚刚毕业后的过渡期，很容易感到迷茫和困惑。

So here's how to remain confident and trust yourself, even in the middle of all the uncertainty and change that this brave new world brings.

所以，即使在这个美丽新世界带来的所有不确定性和变化中，也要保持自信和信任自己。

1. Stop feeling like you should have all the answers

1. 不要觉得你应该知道所有的答案

Uncertainty is the way things are, and trying to fight is like trying to fight an angry bear with a wet fish. It’ll just leave you exhausted, scared and broken. So relax a little. Understand that uncertainty is natural, and know that doing your best is plenty good enough as a response.

事情本来就是不确定的，企图挣脱这个事实就好比用湿鱼打一只愤怒的熊。它只会让你筋疲力尽、害怕和心碎。所以放松点。明白不确定是正常的，并且知道作为一种回应，尽你最大的努力就足够了。

2. Prioritise play over success

2. 把开心看得比成功更重要

Extrinsic success is easy, cheap even. So it's through play—through engaging with the things that make you feel joy or connected and experience more success than fitting in with expectations will ever give you.

外在的成功很容易，甚至说很廉价。因此，只有通过开心——通过参与那些让你感到快乐或与他人建立联系的事情，才能获得比满足期望更大的成功。

3. Stop comparing

3.停止比较

Today, every time you compare yourself to someone else, you threaten to undermine your self and your efficacy, or inflate your ego. Comparison is irrelevant. The only thing that's relevant is your ability to approach a decision.

如今，每当你拿自己和别人比较时，你就会威胁到自己和自己的效率，或者相反的去自我膨胀。要知道，比较跟你没有关系。唯一与你有关的是你的决策能力。