我本要行走江湖的

but when i saw you ,i thought i could stop.

但看到你我觉得可以停下来了

One of the greatest sources of unhappiness, in my experience, is the difficulty we have in accepting things as they are.

经验告诉我，使人不快乐最主要的原因，是我们很难接受事物的本来面目。

Without judgment, without wishing for otherwise.

不要臆断，不要期望所有事物都会按照我们喜欢的样子发展。

When we see something we don’t like, we wish it could be different—we cry out for something better. That may be human nature, or perhaps it’s something that’s ingrained in our culture.

当我们遇到不喜欢的事物时，我们希望它们能够变成我们所希望的样子。这可能是人的天性，也可能是一种在文化中已经根深蒂固的习惯。