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　约会不总是轻而易举。我们时常经历一些这样的约会：事先看起来应该有戏，事后却发现失败得一塌糊涂。怎么会这样呢？下面有一些基于星座的原因

资料图:十二星座各自的约会技巧

　　Dating isn’t always easy. Sometimes we’ve experienced dates that, beforehand, seemed as though they’d
be a success, only to find them a complete failure later. Why does this happen? Here are some reasons why a date could go awry based on your sign, and how to prevent them from happening again.

　　约会不总是轻而易举。我们时常经历一些这样的约会：事先看起来应该有戏，事后却发现失败得一塌糊涂。怎么会这样呢？下面有一些基于星座的原因，让你知道为什么约会走上了歧途，以及如何预防这种事情再次发生。

　　Aries: Remember that the world doesn’t revolve around you, Aries. Aries can often think about themselves first, after all, they rule the first house of “self”. Be sure to find out what your sweetie wants, too.

　　白羊座：白羊们要记住，世界不是围着你转。白羊座的人可能通常先想到自己，毕竟，你们是最“自我”的一类。但也一定要弄清楚你的情人想要什么。

　　Taurus: Need to know where your partner is all the time or what they’re doing can easily put you on damage control. When you get into a new relationship or begin dating someone, love without being possessive.

　　金牛座：想要时刻知道你的对象在哪里或者在做什么，会轻易让你时刻警惕着以防自己受伤。当你处于一段新的恋情或者开始约会某人时，用心去爱，但别想着占有。

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资料图:十二星座各自的约会技巧

　　 Gemini: You love to do the talking, but let your sweetie share some words, too. Be an active listener on your next date. Keep eye contact with them at all times, be sure to be empathetic and keep your focus on THEIR story.

　　 双子座：你很爱说，但也要让你的情人 Don’t Be A Dating Disaster! 说上几句。下次约会时一定要做一个积极的聆听者。始终保持眼神交流，一定要投入感情，而且把注意力集中在“他们”的故事上。

　　 Cancer: Watch your mood swings around your sweetie, Cancer, especially on dates. Be careful you don’t flip a switch at that restaurant or even worse do it to your server. Sometimes it can be more embarrassing to see your date be rude to your server than to you even. Watch your emotional energy and keep it in check especially in public!

　　巨蟹座：巨蟹们，有情人相伴时一定要注意自己的情绪波动，尤其是约会时。一定不要在餐馆闹情绪，更不要冲服务员发火。有时候，看到自己的伴侣对服务员粗鲁甚至比对自己粗鲁更难堪。注意自己的情绪，并及时控制，尤其是在公众场合！

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资料图:十二星座各自的约会技巧

　　Leo: You have a great sense of selfesteem, but don’t let your confidence turn to cockiness. Too many comments that are self-serving could make you seem like you’re implying you’re better than average. Keep it real, home slice! Your sweetie will prefer a more humble nature.

　　狮子座：你有很强的自尊心，但不要让你的自信变成自大。太多褒扬自己的话会让你看上去是在暗示你自己比普通人强。现实点吧，朋友！你的情人会喜欢更加谦卑的个性。

　　Virgo: You like everything to be perfect, but when you’re on a date, try not to nit-pick over every single thing to your waiter or sweetie. A dirty spoon or a fly in your soup are good reasons to call over your server. But to fuss over every little thing will most definitely be a turn off to your date.

　　处女座：你希望所有事都完美无缺，不过，当你约会时，注意不要什么事都对服务员或者你的情人进行挑剔。勺子脏或者汤里有只苍蝇都是可以把服务员召唤过来的理由，但是对所有事都吹毛求疵的话，一定以及肯定会让你的情人兴趣索然。

　　Libra: Avoid name-dropping! Scales love expensive and beautiful things. Even people who are associated with beauty and wealth can be a conversation of delight for glamorous Libra. Just try not to name-drop those jeans or that celebrity you know in every conversation.

　　天秤座：别借别人来抬高自己！天秤们喜欢昂贵美丽的事物，就连那些和美丽、富足扯上关系的人都可以成为迷人的天秤座兴致勃勃谈论的话题。试着不要每次谈话都要提到那些牛仔裤或你认识的那个名人来抬高自己。