成功？平庸？到底差在哪儿？

1. 接受改变 vs. 惧怕改变

Embracing change is one of the hardest things a person can do. With the world moving so fast and constantly changing, and technologyaccelerating faster than ever, we need to embrace what’s coming and adapt, rather than fear it, deny it or hide from it.

一个人最难做的事情之一就是接受改变。这个世界进步太快，随时随地都在发生着改变，而科技也是日新月异。我们应该接受即将到来的改变，并适应这样的改变，而不是害怕、否认、逃避。

2. Want others to succeed vs. Secretly hope others fail

2. 希望他人成功 vs. 暗地里希望他人失败

When you’re in an organization with a group of people, in order to be successful, you all have to be successful. We need to want to see our co-workers succeed and grow. If you wish for their demise, why even work with them at all?

和一群人在一家公司工作的时候，你要想成功，那么所有人都必须成功。我们应该希望看到自己同事的成功和进步。如果你希望他们失败，那还为什么要和他们一起工作呢?

3. Accept responsibly for your failures vs. Blame others for your failures

3.勇于承担失败的责任 vs. 因失败抱怨他人

Where there are ups, there are most always downs. Being a leader and successful businessperson means always having to accept responsibility for your failures. Blaming others solves nothing; it just puts other people down and absolutely no good comes from it.

人生总是充满起起落落。作为一个领导者和一名成功的商业人士要勇于承担失败的责任。埋怨他人于事无补，只会让别人感到难堪，抱怨绝不会有任何好处。

4. Talk about ideas vs. Talk about people

4. 谈论想法 vs. 谈论他人

What did we all learn in high school? Gossip gets you nowhere. Instead of gossiping about people, successful people talk about ideas. Sharing ideas with others will only make them better.

我们在高中都学会了什么?八卦不会给你带来任何好处。成功人士在一起会谈论自己的想法而不是八卦他人。彼此交换想法只会让他们变的更好。

5. Set goals and life plans vs. Do not set goals

5. 确立目标和人生计划 vs. 没有目标

You can't possibly be successful without knowing where you're going in life. A life vision board, 10 year plan, 3 year forecast, annual strategic plan, and daily goal lists are useful tools of the mega-successful people. Get your vision and goals down on paper!

生活中，如果你不知道自己要往哪里前进，那么你也不会成功。人生规划，10年规划，3年预期，每年的策略性计划以及每天的目标列表对于成功人士都是很有用的工具。将自己的规划和目标写在纸上。